Life Lesson #3: The views you held growing up are going to evolve. It's up to you to change how you see the world. I grew up in the middle of the Bible Belt. There's more churches in the Galax/Carroll/Grayson area of Virginia than there are businesses it seems. And when you grow up in … Continue reading Life Lessons – Prepare for Change
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Life Lessons – Resets Are Okay
Yesterday, I wrote about life not going the way you planned and how it's okay. Today's life lesson kinda plays off that a little bit. So, lesson #2 I've learned is: Don't be afraid to start over. I feel like I have been hitting the rest button of my life since I started college in … Continue reading Life Lessons – Resets Are Okay
Life Lessons – Detours Will Happen
This is the first series of posts I have planned. The second series will be an ongoing one in 2020 (I'll unveil that later down the road). When I started thinking about this, I got a lot of influence from an interview Taylor Swift gave earlier this year for Elle Magazine. (Yes, I enjoy listening … Continue reading Life Lessons – Detours Will Happen
30 Thoughts for 30 Days
When I first started this blog, it's purpose was split into two ideas - to reflect upon my marriage and my adventures of adulthood and a challenge to myself to keep something updated for the remaining few months of my 20s. I had created a 30 before 30 list, a bucket list of things I … Continue reading 30 Thoughts for 30 Days
Taking Care of Me
I'm coming up on 3 months of being separated from my husband, and wow the difference I have seen in myself y'all. People comment all the time on how happier I seem and for the first time since I can remember I am actually smiling and not faking it. There are still days that I … Continue reading Taking Care of Me
Picking Up the Pieces
It's been a little over a month since my husband and I have split up. In short, I discovered he had been cheating on me for a few weeks. It hadn't been the first time this has happened, unfortunately. He claimed to have a sex addiction and every time this has happened in the past, … Continue reading Picking Up the Pieces
Upside Down
After 2 years and 10 days, my marriage has come to a screeching halt. I'm still trying to process, so it may be a few days before I'm able to come back to this blog. Which is going to have to change completely from what I originally wanted it. Keep me in your thoughts.
Oh Nostalgia
Facebook Memories is a blessing and a curse all wrapped into one. On the one hand, you have the memories that hold sentimental value. It's pictures and posts of loved ones who have since passed. Vacations and trips are nothing more than a distant memory, forever documented into the archives of social media. And then … Continue reading Oh Nostalgia
Finding Peace in Song
Every so often, there's a song that just manages to hit you directly in the emotions you're going through at that moment. The lyrics hit you like a train, overwhelming, powerful, and so raw that it makes it hard to breathe. That's what the lyrics to for King & Country's "God Only Knows," does to … Continue reading Finding Peace in Song
Procrastination Woes
I've gotten lazy with updating. I've gotten lazy with a lot of things, actually. My work schedule has been off, so I'm sleeping a lot longer than I usually do. I've been playing catch-up with laundry all week. I haven't been managing my journal as well as I have in the past few months. I … Continue reading Procrastination Woes